A colleague of mine, a kindergarten teacher, has an arch and winning way of describing bad or questionable behavior or just plain stupidity by people who should know better. Using the language and tone of her classroom, she will point out how someone “is making a bad choice.”
It seems lots of people, as Ms. Pearson would say, are making bad choices. A national survey of nearly 30,000 high school students shows that 30 percent admit to stealing from a store in the past year, while two-thirds have cheated on a test. Against the available evidence, “93 percent were satisfied with their personal ethics and character,” as Joanne Jacobs notes.
Boston Herald columnist Michael Graham says as Americans, we’re not shocked by the survey results because “it’s impossible to be shocked without first being judgmental. And in contemporary America, the only remaining universal sin is to declare anyone else’s behavior sinful.”
When the bullets fly in Dorchester or the blood spills at Wal-Mart, we crank up the Great American Excuse Machine and let fly: Dorchester is violent because of poverty. Scared Americans trample each other at Wal-Mart because of the terrible “Bush economy.” Our kids cheat because academic standards are too high, etc., etc.
“Here’s an idea,” says Graham. “Let’s try holding someone responsible for his own actions for a change. It wouldn’t be a shock. It would be a revolution.”
Maybe fewer of us would make bad choices.