Group Work: It Even Stops Bullies!

by Robert Pondiscio
July 26th, 2010

How do you stop a bully?  “Punch him in the nose,” Dad says.  “Ignore him and he’ll go away,” counsels Mom.   Not hardly.   There’s only one way to stop a bully and that’s…cooperative learning?

“As an essential part of the school curriculum, we have to teach children how to be good to one another, how to cooperate, how to defend someone who is being picked on and how to stand up for what is right,” say Susan Engel and Marlene Sandstrom of Williams College.  Weighing in on a Massachusetts law that mandates an anti-bullying curriculum, and requires schools to report serious cases to police, Engel and Sandstrom say a sense of responsibility for the well-being of others should be “an essential criterion” for what it means to be well-educated. “Children need to know that adults consider kindness and collaboration to be every bit as important as algebra and reading,” they write in a New York Times op-ed.

“In groups and one-on-one sessions, students and teachers should be having conversations about relationships every day….Teachers also need to structure learning activities in which children are interdependent and can learn to view individual differences as unique sources of strength. It’s vital that every student, not just the few who sign up for special projects or afterschool activities, be involved in endeavors that draw them together.”

Look at Norway, they say, where everyone from teachers to janitors to bus drivers are trained to spot bullying and how to intervene.  “Clearly, when a school and a community adopt values that are rooted in treating others with dignity and respect, children’s behavior can change,” write Engel and Sandstrom.

Katharine Beals plays Kumbaya Killer.  The author of Raising a Left-Brain Child in a Right-Brain World writes on her blog: “What’s egregiously missing from this Norwegian comparison is any mention of Norwegian school children working cooperatively on academic assignments.”

“The anecdotes I collected for my book strongly suggest that group learning environments, rather than preventing bullying, are often arenas for it. Bullying can be quite subtle and difficult to detect; teachers cannot supervise multiple groups simultaneously; unsocial and socially awkward children regularly report being teased and ignored as the social hierarchy of the playground creeps into the classroom’s “cooperative groups”–whenever the teacher is out of earshot.

Beals is impatient with those who “never stray within earshot of children who are supposed to be working together” in K-12 classrooms.  Instead, says Beals they “happily write Op-Ed pieces about how wonderfully these groups promote social harmony so long as they are ‘properly implemented.’”

Group work has become the ShamWow of education.  It raises test scores!  It teaches 21st Century Skills!  It even stops bullying!  It’s becoming the reason to go to school in the first place.  I’m fine with group work when it suits the content of the lesson, but I don’t care for the all group work, all the time orthodoxy.  And I’m skeptical that it’s a panacea for all that ails our schools—academic or social.

BFF = Best Friends Forbidden

by Robert Pondiscio
June 17th, 2010

Some educators and other professionals who work with children are discouraging children from having best friends in favor of encouraging kids to socialize as a group.  Some school officials don’t like to see kids pairing off and are intent on “discouraging anything that hints of exclusivity” because of concerns about cliques and bullying.  “Parents sometimes say Johnny needs that one special friend,” Christine Laycob, director of counseling at Mary Institute and St. Louis Country Day School in St. Louis tells the New York Times. “We say he doesn’t need a best friend.” Says the paper:

That attitude is a blunt manifestation of a mind-set that has led adults to become ever more involved in children’s social lives in recent years. The days when children roamed the neighborhood and played with whomever they wanted to until the streetlights came on disappeared long ago, replaced by the scheduled play date. While in the past a social slight in backyard games rarely came to teachers’ attention the next day, today an upsetting text message from one middle school student to another is often forwarded to school administrators, who frequently feel compelled to intervene in the relationship. (Ms. Laycob was speaking in an interview after spending much of the previous day dealing with a “really awful” text message one girl had sent another.) Indeed, much of the effort to encourage children to be friends with everyone is meant to head off bullying and other extreme consequences of social exclusion.

Somebody who knows more about child rearing and psychology (paging Dan Willingham!) is going to have to weigh in here.  I’m out of my depth, but intuitively this sounds not only odd and an overreaction, but a needlessly meddlesome intrusion into children’s lives.  Best friends are bad for kids?  Seriously??

Cyberbullying Video

by Robert Pondiscio
January 25th, 2010

Potent and cleverly done anti-cyberbullying video on You Tube.  Watch carefully.

Aggressive as a Toddler, Bullied as a Kid

by Robert Pondiscio
October 8th, 2008

Kids who are aggressive early on in life are more likely to be victimized by bullies than non-aggressive kids.  That’s one of the key findings of a new study this week in the Archives of General Psychiatry.  Newsweek notes experts have previously documented a link between being aggressive and being tormented.

When volatile and angry children act out on their frustrations—smashing a toy after someone takes their ball away—they aren’t exactly beloved by their peers….Kids who take their wrath out on other kids, as the children did in the study, are also at risk. Their classmates don’t like them—and some will eventually make their displeasure known. Prior research has focused largely on school-age kids, around age 4 or 5, and the studies have been relatively small. The new study, which followed 1,970 children in Canada, traces behavior all the way back to toddlerhood.

The researchers found two other risk factors for “peer victimization” as well, Newsweek reports: harsh or reactive parenting—anger, shouting and spanking when the kids were fussy—and lower income families.

The New Playground

by Robert Pondiscio
October 7th, 2008

Three out of four teenagers report they were bullied online at least once in the last year, according to a new study by UCLA psychologists.  Not yours?  Only one in 10 reported cyberbullying to parents or other adults.

At Ars Technica, blogger John Timmer has a smart take on this.  Parents and teachers are concerned that the anonymity of online bullying exacerbates the problem.  But the study suggests it’s less of a new phenomenon than the playground gone digital.

The authors feel strongly that the fact that real-world bullying strongly predicts cyberbullying and the parallels in behavior both suggest that cyberbullying may not actually be a distinct phenomenon. “These findings further underscore the continuity between adolescents’ social worlds in school and online,” they conclude.

Tracking the Bullies

by Robert Pondiscio
July 30th, 2008

Florida’s Broward County has become the first school district in the state to put an “anti-bullying policy” in place, per newly required state law.  The Miami Herald reports Broward schools are rolling out a new computerized system for reporting and tracking bullying.  “The Florida Department of Education will use Broward’s policy as a model for the state’s 66 other school districts,” the paper notes.  The Broward school district now defines bullying as “systematically and chronically inflicting physical hurt or psychological distress….The policy includes more than traditional schoolyard name-calling, teasing and shoving. Now, even behavior over the Internet — or social networking — can count if it affects students in school.