Few parents fully appreciate the corrosive effect that popular culture has on their children’s lives, writes Psychology Today blogger Jim Taylor, who observes that the music, movies, television and advertising children consume is no longer a reflection of contemporary values. “Many heroes offered by popular culture are not heroic, many of its icons represent unhealthy values, and many of its rituals, myths, and beliefs are in its own best interests, not those of your children,” he writes. Popular culture also dominates virtually every part of your children’s lives, he observes.
Popular culture is like a network of saboteurs that infiltrate your family’s lives with stealth and deception, hiding behind entertaining characters, bright images, and fun music. You probably don’t notice half of the unhealthy messages being conveyed to your children. Popular culture is also an invading army that overwhelms your children with these destructive messages. It attempts to control every aspect of your children’s lives: their values, attitudes, and beliefs about themselves and the world that they live in; their thoughts, emotions, and behavior; their needs, wants, goals, hopes, and dreams; their interests and avocations; their choices and their decisions. With this control, popular culture can tell children what to eat and drink, what to wear, what to listen to and watch, and children have little ability to resist.
Taylor acknowledges that not everything kids consume through their ears and eyeballs is garbage. There is educational television for children and video games that encourage creativity and problem solving. But even ”good” popular culture isn’t all that good for children, he points out, since it encourages them to be sedentary, have indirect social contact, and experience life vicariously instead of directly.
His advice to parents applies equally well to teachers: know your children’s enemy. “Study popular culture. Watch what your children watch on television, play their video games, listen to their music, visit the Web sites they surf, read the magazines they read. Then, understand the value messages they are getting from popular culture,” he writes.


